According to the article of Record Chine, a Professor of Cornell University in the U.S., Daniel who is a Psychologist has researched that what the difference of tender feelings between men and women through 5000 couples for 3 years and then he reports that “a real feeling of love” will not be continuing more than for 30 months. In the article, he argues that what “a real feeling of love” is like when you think of being able to meet your boyfriend or girlfriend, if you feel the heart pounding or not. In the article, he also reports that after 30 months together, a power of hugging from a man to a woman would be 75% down and from a woman to a man, the power would be 85% down. Then, for both men and women, when they kiss, the feeling of passionate would reduce 75% each, he reports. I agree with the report. I think that a love would be changing to a different way which is like first, they love as boyfriend and girlfriend then after getting married or together for a long time, they would start loving as a family member. I mean that for men, they may start thinking how to support their family after getting married so they must be more serious than when they are just a couple.
There is an interesting information about divorce in the U.S. Almost a half of married couple in the U.S. have gotten divorce. This is double number of Japanese rate. According to the article of a News paper, there are 3 big reasons why the U.S. people have divorced a lot.
1, The low of divorce has been changed that people can get divorce easier than before since it executed in 1970.
2, women have earned more money than before, therefore, they can become independent.
3, An existence of a religion. For example, Catholicism has accepted getting divorce.
I believe that American people have said “I love you” a lot, of course, more than Japanese people have said that. In Japan, before Japanese people eat a meal, they should say “Itadakimasu” which means “Thank you for eating a meal.” but almost no one think that “Thanks” from the bottom of their hearts. It looks like just saying that with no feeling. So, I doubt the American’s ” I love you.” It is like Japanese “Itadakimasu.” I feel like that American’s “I love you” is with no feeling because they have gotten divorced a lot even if they are saying “I love you” so many times a day.
Do you think that which kiss is the truth?
Anyway, I hope that the all “I love you” are the truth…
